The Big Picture. So write it all out and send yourself a memo. 
One day I just sat down and started writing. I didn't know what I was writing about, I had no foresight, no plot, no ending. Yet as I continued to write suddenly a picture started forming, taking shape, becoming real, but I still couldn't focus clearly on it. I was trying too hard.
Trying too hard may not get you there. Sometimes the best thing to do when your focus is not clear, is to quit trying to focus so hard. Step back, forget about it for a while, let the inner mind, the one we don't really control, do it's job. It's very good at it's job if we just let it do it. Some things just take time. Like planting a seed.... you can't make it grow, you can only give it the right environment, then relax and let time do
it's job.
Buddha commented that in order for things to seem right for a person, they must first have the right view. All else follows.
When it finally came together in my head.

I read what I had written several times. Sounded good but something was still missing. I had to get away from it for awhile, so I pretty much quit thinking about it. Then I started noticing things, things that were there all along, but I started to see them in a different way. There seemed to be a connection.
Slowly my focus was improving. What I had written started to make sense in my real world. My view started to adjust to a view that was right for me, I just knew it. What I found out when the pieces became a big picture blew my mind. It was so simple to understand yet so difficult to comprehend... or was it?
Was I starting to think too hard again?
Maybe so.
Now I don't think hard about it, I just see it. Everywhere I look I see it. It was there all along, but I could not see it... it was all fuzzy and out of focus. But now, without even trying to think about it, it's there... all the time. Well, almost all the time, but that's good enough for me.
Our woefully limited senses only detect a very small fraction of what's really here right now. I finally discovered and absorbed a different outlook towards all this
"stuff" going on all around us every second of every day. I finally understood that
It Does All Count and It Is All Connected. For me it's a new view that grants me a great deal of peace of mind, and one I don't really have to work very hard at. Understanding what I think to be the Ultimate Truth's take care of most of that for me now.
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